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More Than Just Your Body

When people hear “best sex tips,” they often think of the more literal (physical) aspect. However, having enjoyable, passionate intimacy isn’t solely about the body. Your mind, in terms of how you feel about yourself, how you feel about sex, and how you feel in the moment; changes everything. Your mood, your stress levels, your trust with your partner(s), and your body image will affect your sexual experiences.

So, what factors affect this? Your personal life and stress factors, the culture you grew up with and have been surrounded by, and much more. For many women and people with vulvas, the media has changed the expectations in our brains. The way sex looks in media has been inaccurately displaying a super-easy, no-complications interaction, and between two very specific body types.

These factors have made people think sex needs to be a certain way, your body should look a certain way, or the way you perform and think about sex needs to be a specific way. When in reality, your own body and feelings about sex alone are perfectly normal and acceptable. Every body and mind is different, and that’s perfectly okay. Which is the one of the amazing topics that Come As You Are addresses; providing the best sex tips you could ask for.

Best Sex Tips For Your Brain

With new information and scientific research, author Emily Nagoski helps demystify the actual workings of sex, in order to help everyone have better sexual experiences and a happier life overall. It’s time to face the reality; sex psychology is incredibly important for enjoyable sex. Humans are naturally connected by body and mind. Meaning how you feel about something effects the way that action is done. And vice versa. It’s time to stop defining intimacy based on other people’s experiences with it. Unravel your own sexual wellbeing and mindset, and be better able to have amazing sex!