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Learn How To Pleasure a Woman

When you imagine how to pleasure a woman (or person with a vulva), the goal shouldn’t just be to “get it done” as fast as possible. Rather than a race, providing your partner with a proper intimate experience means being willing to put in all the effort sincerely, from start to finish. In She Comes First, Ian Kerner provides a lot of insight on restructuring the way you think of sex and pleasure for your partner!

Some of the topics discussed in this intimate guide include:

• The importance of foreplay for arousal
• How penetration isn’t the only form of pleasure
• The significance of the clitoris for climax
• All the sensitive areas of the vulva and related anatomy

The Importance of Anatomy

One of the first incredibly important lessons the author of She Comes First discusses is actual vaginal anatomy. Do you actually know the structure of the vulva? More importantly, do you know what parts of that anatomy are the sensitive, pleasure-inducing ones? If not, that’s okay! Reading this book can be your first step. By learning this basic but necessary knowledge of vaginal anatomy, you’ll be better prepared to help discover and understand what a woman (or person with a vulva) needs for proper arousal and pleasure.

With this guide, you’ll be more educated and prepared on how to pleasure your partner. Just remember not all people experience pleasure the same, and you’ll need to communicate with your partner properly for the best results! Even those with a vulva may find the anatomical lessons and professional advice useful for themselves. After all, everyone is welcome on the journey to better pleasure—and the first step is understand your (or your partner’s) body!

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